The R U Ok? thread

[Guest]

Good question.
I can't answer honestly.
Did wanna die the other week, and ain't sure what I wudda said then.

It's a build up sometimes.
Always getting closer to the point of no return, then you figure life's short anyway.
I dunno.

What should you do if they say no???
um
Depends on a lot.

Talking helps, if you're good at it maybe?
I'd offer to buy them a drink.


I dunno.
After all the doctor stuff last week, It kinda made me feel like keep trying because of knowing some people care.........even if we only have rooster addiction in common.
Usually deal with stuff like that on me pat malone, good question.

Every situation is different I think.
But occasionaly the odd question might make a difference.
I might.........have been in trouble if parky did'nt ring me the other week.
And sometimes knowing others, even if you've never met seem to care helps a lot in retrospect.

So hard to write this atm.
Can'rt explain a lot. Life can be extremely hard.
But without it, we got bugger all.

Great post Eddie. Let me think about my response but yeah, good one mate.

[Parkway_Drive]

Good question.
I can't answer honestly.
Did wanna die the other week, and ain't sure what I wudda said then.

It's a build up sometimes.
Always getting closer to the point of no return, then you figure life's short anyway.
I dunno.

What should you do if they say no???
um
Depends on a lot.

Talking helps, if you're good at it maybe?
I'd offer to buy them a drink.


I dunno.
After all the doctor stuff last week, It kinda made me feel like keep trying because of knowing some people care.........even if we only have rooster addiction in common.
Usually deal with stuff like that on me pat malone, good question.

Every situation is different I think.
But occasionaly the odd question might make a difference.
I might.........have been in trouble if parky did'nt ring me the other week.
And sometimes knowing others, even if you've never met seem to care helps a lot in retrospect.

So hard to write this atm.
Can'rt explain a lot. Life can be extremely hard.
But without it, we got bugger all.

Well said mate.

A lot of strength and power in your words and experience.

[Parkway_Drive]

So when you ask someone are they okay and they say, "no", what should you do? Serious question. A lot of people can't afford counseling and others dislike or are in some way opposed to taking medication. Do you tell them life is okay even if you think it really isn't. This campaign confused me

Everyone is different so I dont have a magic bullet or wise words mate.

Horses for courses, I go with my gut instinct, being a good listener does help, not that I am one.

At the end of the day, if you give a shit, its way better than to not. But if someone is in pain, I dont or wont blame for how they feel or act. Just stay solid with them.

Funnily though this forum is a part of my life now. People on here, many I havent met are like family to me now.

[Mickie Lane]

Everyone is different so I dont have a magic bullet or wise words mate.

Horses for courses, I go with my gut instinct, being a good listener does help, not that I am one.

At the end of the day, if you give a shit, its way better than to not. But if someone is in pain, I dont or wont blame for how they feel or act. Just stay solid with them.

Funnily though this forum is a part of my life now. People on here, many I havent met are like family to me now.

Thanks bro.

[mightyrooster]

Everyone is different so I dont have a magic bullet or wise words mate.

Horses for courses, I go with my gut instinct, being a good listener does help, not that I am one.

At the end of the day, if you give a shit, its way better than to not. But if someone is in pain, I dont or wont blame for how they feel or act. Just stay solid with them.

Funnily though this forum is a part of my life now. People on here, many I havent met are like family to me now.

Nicely said Parky.

[mightyrooster]

Good question.
I can't answer honestly.
Did wanna die the other week, and ain't sure what I wudda said then.

It's a build up sometimes.
Always getting closer to the point of no return, then you figure life's short anyway.
I dunno.

What should you do if they say no???
um
Depends on a lot.

Talking helps, if you're good at it maybe?
I'd offer to buy them a drink.


I dunno.
After all the doctor stuff last week, It kinda made me feel like keep trying because of knowing some people care.........even if we only have rooster addiction in common.
Usually deal with stuff like that on me pat malone, good question.

Every situation is different I think.
But occasionaly the odd question might make a difference.
I might.........have been in trouble if parky did'nt ring me the other week.
And sometimes knowing others, even if you've never met seem to care helps a lot in retrospect.

So hard to write this atm.
Can'rt explain a lot. Life can be extremely hard.
But without it, we got bugger all.

Nice response Eddie. Hope things are on the up for you.

[eddie]

Nice response Eddie. Hope things are on the up for you.

Sorry M.R. What can I say?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0wBDDAZkNtk

[eddie]

I've been on the down side for a lot of years, and I must pay the piper.
I do want another premiership first, if possible

[eddie]

I am in limbo.
Operation in Jan, 95% success rate.......

No idea about the six month estimated recovery period.

[eddie]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fc6izYdLhNE

[eddie]

What type of animal gives the world its sadest sound, when it gets.............................compromised?

[eddie]

I feel bad now. my frustration with proper stuff gives the impression I'm trying to turn the cronkpen into the eddie pen..............
Please disregard all posts . https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e-fA-gBCkj0

[eddie]

I'm not ok.
But...........................I still have my psycologist who is nearing retirement.
I still have a small community of Easts friends who I piss off.
I still have Parky, who's a much better person than he'll ever admit.
I still wake up every morning.
I still have responsibilitys , that even if I can't handle them, it means I'm sorta useful.
I still might have a future, ain't allowed to self destruct because that can be hereditory.
I still have my son (apparently I only have one son coz the other is now one of my daughters)
I still try to keep a civil relationship with my ex, even though she is a user.
I still care if the Roosters win.
I still have my new GP, who is one of the best blokes I've ever met.
I still have certain memories.
I am sick of life.
I wanna swap places with a better person who has cancer.
I am not worth it.

I still am honest.

[Guest]

I'm not ok.
But...........................I still have my psycologist who is nearing retirement.
I still have a small community of Easts friends who I piss off.
I still have Parky, who's a much better person than he'll ever admit.
I still wake up every morning.
I still have responsibilitys , that even if I can't handle them, it means I'm sorta useful.
I still might have a future, ain't allowed to self destruct because that can be hereditory.
I still have my son (apparently I only have one son coz the other is now one of my daughters)
I still try to keep a civil relationship with my ex, even though she is a user.
I still care if the Roosters win.
I still have my new GP, who is one of the best blokes I've ever met.
I still have certain memories.
I am sick of life.
I wanna swap places with a better person who has cancer.
I am not worth it.

I still am honest.

And you still have The Coach and King Salvo for friends.

[Mickie Lane]

Im glad you come on here eddie.