The R U Ok? thread

[mightyrooster]

Well it’s been a pretty ordinary day and week to be honest.

[Rooster1908]

Well it’s been a pretty ordinary day and week to be honest.

Yes me as well . Lost my mother on Friday , not to covid and could only have 3 of us at the funeral on Wednesday . Two grand daughters in Queensland and all her friends Wagga obviously couldn't come. Service was in the Shoal haven but she is to be transported 400 km next Tuesday to be buried in our home town but we cant be there for that as well. Not looking for sympathy but shit this is tough. So no I'm not ok I just want to give her grand kids a cuddle this shit needs to end

[zac]

Yes me as well . Lost my mother on Friday , not to covid and could only have 3 of us at the funeral on Wednesday . Two grand daughters in Queensland and all her friends Wagga obviously couldn't come. Service was in the Shoal haven but she is to be transported 400 km next Tuesday to be buried in our home town but we cant be there for that as well. Not looking for sympathy but shit this is tough. So no I'm not ok I just want to give her grand kids a cuddle this shit needs to end

thoughts with you

[Jacks Fur Coat]

Yes me as well . Lost my mother on Friday , not to covid and could only have 3 of us at the funeral on Wednesday . Two grand daughters in Queensland and all her friends Wagga obviously couldn't come. Service was in the Shoal haven but she is to be transported 400 km next Tuesday to be buried in our home town but we cant be there for that as well. Not looking for sympathy but shit this is tough. So no I'm not ok I just want to give her grand kids a cuddle this shit needs to end

I'm so sorry to hear about your Mum mate, and these circumstances on your family.

If you want to talk sometime, send me a private message will give you my number.

Strength and prayers.

[mightyrooster]

Yes me as well . Lost my mother on Friday , not to covid and could only have 3 of us at the funeral on Wednesday . Two grand daughters in Queensland and all her friends Wagga obviously couldn't come. Service was in the Shoal haven but she is to be transported 400 km next Tuesday to be buried in our home town but we cant be there for that as well. Not looking for sympathy but shit this is tough. So no I'm not ok I just want to give her grand kids a cuddle this shit needs to end

Sorry to hear that 08. It’s hard enough losing your Mum and then not being able to farewell her with a proper funeral as well. Same thing happened with my mum last year but us kids were able to be there at least. It’s also 2 years ago today my Dad passed as well. I lost both in the space of 11 months. Losing a parent is so hard and I miss talking to them every day. Had your mum been sick for awhile or was it sudden? It takes a while for the sudden shock and initial grief to lessen. It never really goes away, it’s just easier to cope with as time goes by.

[Rooster1908]

I'm so sorry to hear about your Mum mate, and these circumstances on your family.

If you want to talk sometime, send me a private message will give you my number.

Strength and prayers.

Thanks Jack and that's why I consider you a top bloke .We may not agree on everything but you have shown nothing but support on this site .

[Rooster1908]

thoughts with you

Thanks Zac appreciate that

[Rooster1908]

Sorry to hear that 08. It’s hard enough losing your Mum and then not being able to farewell her with a proper funeral as well. Same thing happened with my mum last year but us kids were able to be there at least. It’s also 2 years ago today my Dad passed as well. I lost both in the space of 11 months. Losing a parent is so hard and I miss talking to them every day. Had your mum been sick for awhile or was it sudden? It takes a while for the sudden shock and initial grief to lessen. It never really goes away, it’s just easier to cope with as time goes by.

Thanks MR she had need in a nursing home for a while with average health but started to get worse a few weeks ago .Was reasonably fast so that's a blessing. Sorry about you loosing both parents so recently. Horrible thing.Lost my old man about 23 years ago and still think of him most days.He was a farmer and could turn his hand to anything .Taught me so much and luckily I listened because I do things now that I know only because if him .

[Jacks Fur Coat]

Thanks Jack and that's why I consider you a top bloke .We may not agree on everything but you have shown nothing but support on this site .

The least I could do mate. Our parents shape our values for life, and I can see how genuine you are even from our interactions on here. Your Mum would be proud.

[mightyrooster]

Thanks MR she had need in a nursing home for a while with average health but started to get worse a few weeks ago .Was reasonably fast so that's a blessing. Sorry about you loosing both parents so recently. Horrible thing.Lost my old man about 23 years ago and still think of him most days.He was a farmer and could turn his hand to anything .Taught me so much and luckily I listened because I do things now that I know only because if him .

Yeah you’re right. I think your parents know you better than anyone, even your husband / wife / partner. It leaves such a big gap when they’re both gone. But I like to think they may be gone in body but they’re always there with you. You can always remember the things they taught you and of course you can always smile and laugh to yourself about the silly things they may have done over the years too. Take care of yourself and again I’m really sorry for your loss.

[SamKerrSimp]

I've lived with it for 20 years or so, you get used to it after a while and it just becomes something that's there

[redwhiteblue]

This is a very helpful and informative article. I could have written it myself.

https://iheartintelligence.com/10-re...-in-your-life/

[Andrew Walker]

Hi all

In light of a post last night which I have seen was updated this morning by the poster which despite requests from moderators not do do so once again brought inter personal matters onto this site. That being Songs From Your era for anyone interested the post is on page 156 post #2335 posted last night then added to this morning with the poster airing concerns I would like to assure all here I am happy well and contented with life. Nothing has changed but some people make the mistake of thinking they know others inside out when they do not.

Apart from a handful of posters on here, the poster and myself do not know anyone else in common in the outside world let alone people we both currently communicate or have any dealings with. Apparently there are people who have been confiding to this poster they are concerned about me. The act we know nobody outside of here I kindly ask is there anybody who is confiding with this poster about myself expressing concerns about my well being. Please come forward and identify yourself here for myself and everyone to see. Then address your concerns to me in PM. Otherwise the post which I will paste below is nothing more than fantasy on the poster part with the poster gaslighting bullying and demeaning myself and my family. We are very upset and would like this to stop.


Today, 12:29 AM
Originally posted by mightyrooster View Post
It’s all good Andy. It was just a bit awkward.

Response below

Sorry MR. It's my fault for having Andrew Walker on ignore. I was just trying to let him know that Jody Watley is the lady in the clip. I love sharing music with everyone, him included. That's one thing I enjoy sharing with everyone in this thread. The last thing I wanted was to make you feel awkward.

I also hope he gets the help he needs for his issues. We have a lot of people in common and they are truly worried about him as he is not the person we all used to know. I've done all I can and he's made it clear that he doesn't want or need help. Time will tell...
Last edited by redwhiteblue; Today, 10:55 AM.

We are not Ok with this and would like this to stop.

[Andrew Walker]

Hi all

In light of a post last night which I have seen was updated this morning by the poster which despite requests from moderators not do do so once again brought inter personal matters onto this site. That being Songs From Your era for anyone interested the post is on page 156 post #2335 posted last night then added to this morning with the poster airing concerns I would like to assure all here I am happy well and contented with life. Nothing has changed but some people make the mistake of thinking they know others inside out when they do not.

Apart from a handful of posters on here, the poster and myself do not know anyone else in common in the outside world let alone people we both currently communicate or have any dealings with. Apparently there are people who have been confiding to this poster they are concerned about me. The act we know nobody outside of here I kindly ask is there anybody who is confiding with this poster about myself expressing concerns about my well being. Please come forward and identify yourself here for myself and everyone to see. Then address your concerns to me in PM. Otherwise the post which I will paste below is nothing more than fantasy on the poster part with the poster gaslighting bullying and demeaning myself and my family. We are very upset and would like this to stop.


Today, 12:29 AM
Originally posted by mightyrooster View Post
It’s all good Andy. It was just a bit awkward.

Response below

Sorry MR. It's my fault for having Andrew Walker on ignore. I was just trying to let him know that Jody Watley is the lady in the clip. I love sharing music with everyone, him included. That's one thing I enjoy sharing with everyone in this thread. The last thing I wanted was to make you feel awkward.

I also hope he gets the help he needs for his issues. We have a lot of people in common and they are truly worried about him as he is not the person we all used to know. I've done all I can and he's made it clear that he doesn't want or need help. Time will tell...
Last edited by redwhiteblue; Today, 10:55 AM.

We are not Ok with this and would like this to stop.

Any takers as to who on here has been confiding with RWB RE concerns about the welfare of my mental health. Please identify yourself

[rented tracksuit]

Well it ain’t me mate.

The more mental you are, the more I like you so I wouldn’t be recommending you get any help!